One of the reasons I like working on an acute care floor, is most of
the time, the patients are alert and oriented enough to develop a
therapeutic relationship with them. I enjoy being able to carry on
conversations with the patients and family. Usually if a patient is
giving everyone else a difficult time, I can usually use my charm and
charisma to make them like me. However, sometimes this is not a good
thing.
I had this middle aged man who had an epidural abscess. This abscess led to paralysis from the waist down.
The
patient was pretty upset about this, because it meant more time spent
in the hospital and not only that but the MDs weren't aware if he would
fully regain control of his legs. So of course he was a little
depressed.
I always try to get my patients interested in
conversation to help keep their minds off their prognosis if only for a
few minutes. This patient had been with us for about a month, when my
co-workers began to tell me that he had a crush on me. I just laughed
and brushed it off.
But then I began to realize that my
co-workers were right. The light hearted joking and conversations with
the patient had changed, to talking about my personal life...if i had a
boyfriend, if I wanted kids, and other personal information. Then one
night it crossed the line.
We were talking about everyday things
when he asked "Do you like kids?" I told him of course I did. He then
proceeded to tell me that I could have his, but of course it was a two
for one package and he came with them. I just laughed it off, but could
no longer ignore the fact that he did in fact have a crush on me. It
made it a little awkward whenever I had to go into his room...but I just
went about my job. And of course it gave my co-workers even more ammo
to tease me with. :)
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